Hello MelB,
It is nice to meet you. I wish it was under different circumstances. I think it is great that you have taken this positive step for yourself. I took this same step many years ago and I have never regretted it. I have met some wonderful people over the years and have made many life long friends and I love to make new friends.
I see that TPC YaYa has told you about the different ways you can interact with others. I hope you will find all three ways of communicating as helpful as I have found them to be.
Have a great day,
Noki4