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Hi there….   ( MercedesN )

Yes, severe pain can effect everything about our bodies….physical and mental. I do indeed live alone with NO help whatsoever, yet I do not ask for any., besides my closets friends live in Arizona and I in Illinois just north of St.Louis, MO…….so they are too far away to help me.

I do know I am going to have to something soon with my beautiful home I live in on a 6 acre lake. My back yard area is gorgeous in front of lake with an extra large solid 100% cedar Gazebo and BBQ built in area. So much for any future entertaining.Worse, I have been divorced for many years….no children nor siblings…so its just me, yet in a way it MAKES ME do all on my own which can be good thing…my pain levels can be a killer and it shuts me down from working like I used to do to maintain a lush outdoor property…just beautiful. I have been hiring some to do my chores, but that gets so old and angers me that I cannot be out there to do all.

I will be selling my home soon and move where I am not sure yet…maybe stay in my area or even perhaps go to a place I hardly know about…I know, it may sound silly….I need some new changes and things in my life since I have no friends or others to talk to here.

Please wrote me back, and hopefully I have made a friend here in you. I am a straight up…stand up guy who just tells it like it is….not a phony whatsoever. All my close friends will tell you that about me. Most tell me I have an Alpha Male personality…..well, thats good/bad maybe?

please tell me more about your pain issues….I have had 7 major surgeries in just 3 yrs alone and I only hope it is all over with Godspeed now. I have a big concern my pain doc is going to take away “my quality of life” …..like next week by stopping my must needed pain meds. Not a fun thing to think about….he is scared of the DEA and his medical license he’s said a couple times

I will keep the faith….and I ask you do as well.

Rick Reidt